What if you didn’t need Bali to find yourself? For 14 years, Traci Saulsberry led communications at NBC, becoming one of the youngest Black executives at the company. She had everything a modern woman is told to want–the house, her son, the high-powered job. But when her carefully constructed life collapsed, Saulsberry was confronted with a question she’d been avoiding for years: Who was she, really?
This Is How You Love Her is a vulnerable narrative guide to uncovering your identity in life’s small moments, right where you are. With wit and insight, heart and cinematic prose, Saulsberry weaves together pages from her journal, conversational guides, poetry, and reflection prompts in this memoir-meets-guide that gives readers permission to get to know themselves at their own pace.
For anyone who’s ever lost themselves in work, relationships, or the image they built to survive–this is your roadmap home.